Ladies, what do you think the ex wife wants?

My boyfriend has been divorced for 3 years. He talks with his ex wife from time to time on matters concerning their grown mentally ill daughter and they drop each other mails on household and medical bills. She scribbles notes to him often and always signs with a ';heart';. I don't think this is a typical way to communicate with your ex spouse no matter how friendly the divorce remains. My boyfriend thinks it is very tacky of her to sign her notes with a heart. Since they need to work with each other over the sick daughter, it is better not to upset the woman. What is she trying to communicate with the heart? Thanks,


Curious.Ladies, what do you think the ex wife wants?
OH, I'm an expert on this one. She wants to let you know, not him that she will always have a piece of him.





He's got her number though, sounds like you got a good one.





What you don't what to do is give her the power she is seeking. By you keep ';Baby, look she sign with a heart again!'; Or even looking at his mail to see what she is saying to him, you're giving her power. If he wanted her or if they were meant to be they would still be. He has choosen you, don't make him regret it. If she can push you away then maybe she can get him back. She laughing every time she signs that heart, put the joke on her and ignore it. Don't confront her about it or have him talk to her about Don't pay her game at least not that way.





When she calls though just to be evil, I might start kissing on him and making sex sounds to piss her off. Naw don't do that, you be the adult, let her keep being the kid Looks likes that's why he had to get away from her in the frist place.Ladies, what do you think the ex wife wants?
Your bf sounds like a level headed man and has even spoken concern to you about her with the ';heart'; business, if he was still interested in her he would be jumping to her defense.


Dont worry about things, your bf has made his choice and since they have to communicate because of their daughter I would take a back seat and have a good giggle with your man each time she leaves her little heart signature.


Good luck and stop worrying.
it means she still loves him of course!





as long as he does not answer back with a heart, you have no worries, lol! =) and as long as he shares all their communication with you, you have no worries! =) and as long as he does not meet with her alone, you have no worries! if he is causing questions, on his end, then, you should dump him...





if this bother's your boyfriend, he should tell his ex to stop the heart crap... if he says it bothers him, but, never does anything about it to stop her from doing it, then, he obviously likes the heart crap and is feeding you a line of crapola! dump him!





he needs to say something to her about it, not you... if he really hates this heart stuff... otherwise, he's just using you...





Mary
The heart is just a symbol. She probably cares for him in some way or perhaps she is one of those people that just sign that way It is a very trivial thing and not really worth you being upset about. If he does not like it he can say something to her and ask her to stop. I think there is more in life to worry about than this. Stop fretting before you create a problem where none exists
She's probably just being sarcastic hunni, just put it down to the fact that she's immature %26amp; forget it.


If you ask her to stop signing notes with the heart, she'd probably colour it in in red felt tip, just to wind you up.





Fact : He's loves his daughter, but he has a life with %26amp; loves you.





Good Luck hunni. X :-)
only she and possible he know what the heart means...how we know? But as far as dealing with her, if you are secure with your relationship, don't worry about it. I would remain friendly with her, cause she can turn on the drop of a hat. As long as she isn't writing him love letters, don't worry.
Some women find it hard to let go, well some people for that matter. The fact your husband finds it tacky means you have no cause for concern, if thats the way she is leave it, if your boyfriend was interested and like it then you should watch your back.....





She lost him and thats that....
I wouldn't worry too much about it... If he brings it up to the ex she will know that it got to you. It might be her way of hanging on and getting to you. Let it go and be gracious. As they say, Kill them with kindness!!!!
She is only trying to make you jealous, but its the other way around she is jealous of you! Don't let it worry you!!!!! Feel great about yourself that you make another woman jealous!!! You have someone that she can't have!!!!!!!!!!
I think she definitely wants back into his life---talk with your husband and it sounds like you both agree.....tell the ex to keep communication at a minimum and stop the heart business.
As long as he wants nothing to do with her she can do what she wants. There is not much you can do.
Usually, they want half or more.





Maybe she's just the kind of person who always hearts, even to friends. I'd just blow it off as unimportant.
Just let her draw her hearts. So what. Im sure they have a deep relationship and the two will always be bonded. So she draws hearts??? Gheez.
hmmm.... well i find that very odd....


I wouldnt like it if an ex wrote to my hubby and signed with a heart! thats odd.... is she ill?
She wants him.
Well, I'm willing to bet that she doesn't have a significant other in her life right now. My husbands ex did that kind of stuff when she didn't have anyone else to focus her attention on. She sent birthday cards and all kinds of stuff to him until she met someone else to occupy her time. I don't think it means they want them back, I think it's more of a I don't want you, but I don't want you to be happy before me kind of deal, so they do what they can to try and send rifts just to be nasty. My husbands ex did it all the time. Would call just cause she was bored or she needed help with her house and didn't have the money to pay a professional. That little heart deal she does is just something to try and see if she can rock the boat a little cause she knows it's going to irritate you as it would her if the shoes were on the other feet. Try and bite your tongue and be the better person because that's what I've done for almost three years now and she's stopped her junk cause I've not reacted to any of her chlildishness attempts to cause problems.