Spouse Seperation?

How many of you have seperated after threatening divorce but never went through with the divorce?


How long were you and your spouse apart? did you communicate?


What did it take for you to finally come back and try to make things work?Spouse Seperation?
Its just like everything, its a decision you make. If you talk about it and decide that being separated is just to provide you with time to reflect and work on your issues, ok. Some people view it as a free for all and do things that make getting back together impossible. Personally I feel that separation is more likely just give false answers, its easy to get along when you see each other once in a while and its easy to forget what problems day to day living causes. I think going to counselling would be necessary in a situation where there is a goal of reconciliation. If you don't change what the issues were they will just come back a month after you start living together again and then it was all just wasted time and energy. I think more often than not its a 'test drive' of being single, living alone...people that have fun and enjoy that time will not want to get back together, people that dont' have fun, for whatever reason, will want to go back to the marriage. Its sad but thats really all it boils down to.Spouse Seperation?
.SOME TIME separation save the couples from getting divorced and SOME TIME not